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Wife Tribe Guide 5 ways to prepare for your future spouse.

5 ways to prepare for you future spouse


Abstinence is necessary in your preparation in becoming a wife. Do you believe this? If you do not let me tell you why! Living in the modern-days fornication is something many partake in. We are living in the days of sexual liberation, freedom which is recognized and affirmed as a fundamental human right. Many do not seem to understand the magnitude of the act. Our sexual disobedience has produced a world staggering

weight that is dragging us down a path full of diseases, abortions, perversion, child molestation, addictions, and sexual exploitation just to name a few.

In the bible its states in 1st Corinthians 6:18-20 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body’s a temple of the Holy Spirit with in you whom you have from God. If you continue to partake in sin against your body, you will become bound with something called soul ties which will prevent your future spouse from seeing you. Why can’t he see you? You are unknowingly tied up and married to someone else through your sexual sin.

Know that sex is not the intimacy and connection that you truly desire and crave. Know that sex do not equate love. I have a few scriptures that you can read aloud. Hebrews 13:4, 1st Corinthians 10:13, John 14:15. Believe God’s truths and wrap yourself in the full armor of God and take captive of every negative and sinful thought. Know that God created a union between a husband and wife called “ one flesh” He then defined any sexual activity outside of the husband-wife relationship a violation of his gift.


It is important for a single woman to have her finances in order before becoming a wife. Do you believe this? If not let me tell you why! First, she must know how to manage and save money by herself before she can do it for her family. She must understand the value of a dollar to be a part of creating wealth in her marriage.

Being a good steward should be an understatement. In Proverbs14:1 it states a wise woman builds her house. She cares about credit, investing and future financial endeavors that will change her family life. When a woman shows that she is a good steward in her own life her husband will place his trust in her with his life. The heart of her husband trusts her and will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life. You must start putting these things in practice before you spouse finds you. When he does, he will know that you are a great value a true gift from God.